Human psychology is both powerful and dangerous part of human personality as it can both overcome and create the problems that are difficult for others to handle. It is our psychic structure that shows something as difficult and other as easy tasks. This differentiation might be because of some past experience that is saved in our subconscious and continues to haunt the categories we set for what we can and can’t do. Fear of studies, homework and tough assignments can be a production of these ‘can’t do’ believes. These fears handicap us to do our work on our own and make us go to door to door begging ‘please help me with my assignment’.
On a brighter side, this very psychology makes us confident in our own abilities and we become able to realize our real potential and use it to the last bit of it.
Whoever created us, He was completely aware of our sensitivities and doubts, I am pretty sure that is why we are flexible i.e. we can make, form and reform our personality and different aspect of our personalities if we sincerely want to. Gaining or regaining self-confidence to study ourselves and complete academic tasks in time, for instance, is what we can achieve with effort and concentration.
Evaluation:
First step towards doing so is to keep evaluate ourselves and understand what we are capable of. Sometimes we are unaware of our hidden talents and potential. These talents are not actually hidden but we can’t see them because we don’t believe that we can do better that we are doing in present. This belief is developed by the continuous layers of self-doubt and a little collection of bad experiences.
As a neutral critic, take your tests. Try to answer the question that you don’t thing you can answer. For instance, if you are given an assignment to write on environmental effects of plastic waste write what you think about the topic. Complete the assignment without fear of being rejected or laughed upon. And then check our performance. Continue this practice and you will see a considerable change after just two or three exercises.
Increase Information Bank:
No matter how weak you think you are in completing the task, no one is weaker to read, listen or watch informative material. It is not a hard job to do. If you are a mathematics student, watch and read stuff about mathematics. If you belong to the discipline of marketing, read books on marketing and for further motivation read biographies of different marketing giants in the history. If you are enrolled in the school of history, watch historical films and documentaries. This is not hard as you just have to absorb what is coming to you without adding anything yourself. A month or two keep up this routine and you will hear your friends asking ‘where did you read that?’
Ask:
Asking questions might sound uncool to you but the cool results that this habits gives makes it worth to be uncool for a moment. ‘What, How, Why, Where, & When’ these golden words can provide you the answers that you trouble yourself so much to find out while solving an assignment. Ask whatever question comes to your mind no matter how stupid it sounds.
Save yourself from the humiliation of crying ‘help with my assignment’ in front of everybody and try to complete your task yourself. If you need more time to achieve that position, you can hire the help of online tuition websites that can help you complete assignments for a while until you become proficient.
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